It takes two

by | Mar 20, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers

It take TWO to BE in an abusive relationship.
We each have the response ability to CHOOSE to BE or NOT to BE withIN a relationship.
If the relationship YOU are in IS ONE that IS abusive YOU ARE ALLOWing yOUR SELF Loathing to BE manifest physically in a violent manner which IS NOT necessary.

Fears may BE faced calmly, sweetly, smoothly, easily, LOVingly.

**Relationships are in truth gateways to KNOWing SELF. They are avenues by which we may heal, expand, and enlighten those aspects of SELF so requiring towards a transcended state of unconditional self love, and thus love for ALL. We are in relationships with others, exist upon this planet with each other as mirrors unto SELF, so we may see where these “aspects requiring” exist.

There is no need to have to go on a dangerous trek into dismal darkness, pain and suffering to see these “aspects requiring” healing, expanding or enlightening. Healing, expanding and enlightening may ALL occur without having to delve to these depths of despair.

We are by virtue of our beingness, by nature, an empathetic species.
We feel others’ emotions without having to experience them ourselves.
We empathize with others’ suffering and pains without ourselves having to experience them first hand.
This is NOT a lesson we require, it IS part of our very biological make up.

We need not push ourselves to the limits of self-sacrifice to BE the I in ME we LOVE our SELF to BE.

If you are in an abusive relationship you are NOT LOVing Self or your partner. *For those who dispute this fact with a resounding, “I DO LOVE my partner”, I ask you this;

Would you ever choose for anyone to be in a situation where they are not being the “I” in them they LOVE themselves to BE?
Would you ever choose a situation for your partner whom you love so dearly to be in where they are becoming someone they are embarrassed of being, someone they regret being, someone they can not face in their own mirror and see TRUTHFully?

When choosing to stay in an abusive relationship, even if you are not the one doing the abusing, you are making the choice to allow the other to.  You are allowing a portal for their abusive behaviour, [you] for them to be this person they, in all likelihood prefer NOT to see in the mirror.

Does this mean it is your fault they are abusive?
Does this mean that if you ‘break up’ with them they will suddenly stop abusing, that they will not continue and abuse whom ever shows up next.
NO!
A resounding, flat out, NO.

However, what you are NOT a party to, [if you are not in a relationship with them, involved with them] you are NOT response able regarding.
On the other hand, what YOU ARE a party to, what you are involved with, when you are in a relationship with another, YOU ARE response able, you DO have choice, as you are participating therein, therefore contributing to the overall existence of the relationship and the situations that arise as a result of its existence in the first place.

You are participating in perpetuating a negatively spiraling vortex of fear NOT LOVE, based upon and within self loathing, comprised of feelings of unworthiness and undeservedness to which no end shall be until YOU make a decision to step out of it, to STOP pARTicipating in your own self sabotaging, self punishing imprisonment, and thus free yOUR SELF to TRUEly experience LOVE.

YOU DESERVE LOVE!

**If you are in an abusive relationship, PLEASE DO seek out assistance, guidance, support from someONE with the wisdom to so provide.***

BLISSedly BE,
Radiating LOVE,
Roni

Today IS your day**

Today IS your day**

by | Mar 18, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers

Today IS……….yOUR Day!!!

Today IS……the BEST Day ever!

Today YOU will look, find and acKNOWledge something [or many things ;D] most ONEderFull in yOUR experience of BEingness, and feel immense Gratitude and LOVE flowing through and embracing YOU.

Today you will take this feeling of gratitude and love and exponentially expand upon it, by sharing it with those that you come into contact with.

Today IS your day, enJOY every little morsel of the gift that IS the miraculous existence that IS YOU. 😀

Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*

Healing Meditation of LOVE

Healing Meditation of LOVE

by | Mar 16, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers

Breathing Deeply, in Conscious Awareness, sending my breath from the tip of my nose to every cell withIN my BEing, around my BEing- into my auric field and BEyond, gently gracing the ALL that IS, ever was or will BE.

I imagine a white light of energy streaming in through the top of my head and coursing through my body, as I inhale deeply through my nose.

Out through the bottom of my feet, into the earth this white cleansing, healing light goes upon my exhale. I exhale whole and complete, until I am deplete of air, through my nose.

Returning back to me this AWEsome white healing light of LOVE enters through the top of my head until creating a BEaYOUtyFull torus of light streaming energy all around my BEingness, manifesting my HIGHest HAPPYness upon ALL levels of my multi-dimensionality in our eternal NOW. _(l)_ ***

*****Do~Ra~Mi~Fa~So~La~Ti~Do*****

Repeating often in gratitude, grace and gifting for the BEnefit of ALL. 😀

Radiating LOVE,
Roni*

Reflections and Healing

Reflections and Healing

by | Mar 13, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers

When upset over the actions of another, ask SELF why it matters so much to you that you are willing to allow self to get upset in the first place.

Often times when we get upset over a situation, it’s NOT about the situation itSELF but the feelings conjured in the situation that are reflective of a past experience.

Instead of reacting to the emotional feelings about a current situation, reflect upon them first, use them to assist you to heal their reason for being in the first place, and then RESPOND.

BLISSedly BE,
Radiating LOVE,
Roni ~*❤*~

 

6th Sense

by | Mar 12, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers

We put A LOT of emphasis, weight, and importance on externally derived information and with great understanding thereto. There has been a kaleidescope of scientific research, decades, if not millennia of personal experience, technological advances that can measure things we simply haven’t the ability [yet] to even know exist with out them, so ya, with great understanding thereto. ??Thing IS, in putting such weight upon externally derived information, we put LITTLE to NO importance, weight, or emphasis on feeling, intuition, insight, or more apropo herein, our INTERNAL information.

Sometimes having too much “external” knowledge about something, keeps us from listening to and therefore KNOWing the internal information available to us, and sometimes that gets in the way of our abilities for manifesting our highest HAPPYness.

For example:

There are 1000’s of individuals diagnosed with cancer everyday.

Many of them are told that based upon the statistics, the information available, their chances for survival are X# of years. Yet, choosing to maintain an optimisitic positive outlook and attitude far surpasses any “chances” they were initially told by a professional in the field. And this little ditty of info. has even been scientifically and statistiscally proven as well.

This IS BEcause these individuals CHOSE NOT to ‘put ALL their eggs’ trust, and reliance upon the “external information”.

Futhermore, they CHOSE to put their reliance on their OWN internal abilities to co-creatively collaborate with THEMSELF to usher their WHOLE BEing to unite together in HEALing, and ONEderFully, they DO.

Had these individuals listened to the external information, MANY if not all would never have seen a day past their “chances of survival statistics”.

Am I saying throw all “external information” out the door. Absolutely…….not.

Not yet anyways, I don’t think we have honed our internal intuitive abilities as yet to be able to make such a statement, however…..I definitely HIGHly recommend taking all external information with a grain of salt and an openness to honing in those listening skills to our internal command centers. Ya know those ‘gut feelings’ we get? The all too often times when we think of something or someone and that thing or person shows up in our materialized reality? Yup, I know ya do. That’s what I’m talking about. Pay attention to those little feelings…..BEfore the materialized reality shows up to affirm them, so you can use them for their intended purpose, to assist YOU.

When you get information that doesn’t jive with you, confuses you, you’re not sure about, or that you just aren’t happy to hear, like a death sentence prognosis from your doctor, take some time with self and see what ya come up with. In the very least it can’t hurt, and you will have spent some valuable time with the one person who needs your loving attention and compassionate care the most, YOU.

To our health, highest happyness and blissFull joy manifest in our eternal NOW.

And…..to each of we, honing those listening skills and deciphering talents that we ALL DO come to BE the doctors, healers, light we all seek. 😀

Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*