by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 11, 2012 | Enlightenment Guidance
Written in April/May 2012
Yesterday was “chemo day”.
My sister, who has been undergoing treatment for Ovarian Cancer for 6 years now, had yet another chemo treatment yesterday.
She is on a 21 day cycle this time [it’s her 4th time around with a chemo treatment protocol….in addition to a whole bunch more alternative treatments she has done as well] with treatment on the 1st and 8th days –
Treatment on the 1st day wipes her out for an entire week.
By the time she goes in for 8th day treatment, she is just coming up for air from the 1st.
She’s at the end of her ‘chemo rope’, having been on this arduous 21 day cycle for months now.
Her 8th day treatment is 1/2 hour in length – [1st day over an hour] and yet had to wait over 3 hours for her treatment once ‘checking in’ at the hospital.
She was ready to walk out yesterday.
Tired, sick, tired, run down, naucious, achy, exhausted, and yet…….as close to the ‘wire’ as she had come she PERSEVERED through PATIENCE and TRUST.
Perserverance through Patience and Trust.
Patience BEcause she Trusts in the BElief that the chemo treatment IS DOing something Positive to assist her, to heal her.
This Patience with the system, with the medical process, with the debilitating medical protocal she is having to endure exists BEcause of her TRUST, her BElief that what she IS DOing IS making a difference- even though there has been no difference for MONTHS now…….still, …she Perseveres……still, …she Trusts…still, she BElieves and it IS BEcause of this Trust, this BElief, this persevering Patience that
she DOes make it through,
she DOes DO what she needs to DO to assist, uplift, empower and enLIGHTen her SELF,
she DOes take the necessary steps towards her own HEALing [self respecting, loving, nurturing, caring for her physical and metaphysical vessels], and
she DOes.
It IS BEcause of this Perseverance, Patience and Trust that my sister Elana Waldman IS alive today. And keep in mind lovelies……SIX YEARS she has been dealing with this very real life and death situation. Six YEARS she has been facing her mortality up close and personal. Six Years she has been facing disappointment after disappointment……life and death disappointments……not just life altering, but permanently life altering……and still, though she has had to get back up again and again and again, countless times to list by now, she keeps on keep’n on, she gets back up and she DOes.*
My sister IS dealing with a life and death situation….she has BEen from the time she was a very young 32…..and she has BEen consistently for over 6 years now.
Most of us are NOT dealing with life and death situations.
We get into unhealthy relationships, job positions/environments, have feelings of insecurities, self doubt, etc…… and though the solution to these situations a far far cry easier to experience than that which one facing a life and death situation has to, we still have a tendency to get stuck withIN the depths of depression so much so, we convince ourselves we are incapable of carrying on.
Hahneyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy………
We ARE Capable!
YOU Are Capable!
Whatever it IS that has you ‘down’, where ever in your life you are feeling ‘less than’, feeling that things are not ‘good enough’, DO something, 1 thing, 1 small itsy bitsy thing to ASSIST YOU get to where you want to BE.
1 thing…….DO it NOW.
**Important to note:
DOing also refers to FIRST and foremost how we are THINKing and FEELing about our situation….
Sooooo if there’s something you are really getting down on your self about Start by attempting to entertain alternative perspectives and interpretations of your situation that come from a MORE POSITIVE Light – even if it’s only marginally more positive….it IS a step in the Right Direction.
For example:
You may BElieve that “BElieving” really does NOT affect your physically manifest outcome……that’s fine……
Start with simply entertaining the idea that it might.
Start with simply thinking about what it is you would like manifest, your life as you would like it to be.
Start by seeking out in your life where the things that you would like manifest in your life actually already are manifest in your life, even if only a small little aspect of them.
[ie: You want to live in a mansion…..look at your home, where you are living and think about those sisters and brothers of ours around the world who live with 4-10 others in a place ½ the size of your current place and how they would regard your current place. Allow yourself to look upon your place with their eyes – see your mansion, and…..feel their gratitude for being in your position in life.]
Just START……….and DO so from, withIN, and through LOVE.
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni ~*❤*~
**For the record, Elana did her treatment, got through it and felt much better [even though ravaged by the chemo] once she did…….
Depths of Gratitude to ALL of YOU ONEderFull Earth Angels Divine for sharing your light of Love. _(l)_
May the unity of our Light of LOVE emanate out to the ALL in healing beams of embracing BEaYOUty returning each of we – where is necessary- to optimal homeostasis permanently. 😀
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 10, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
Welcoming a new sibling into the family can be as easy or as difficult as mom and dad influence it to be.
This is not to say that mom and dad have complete control over how existing/older siblings shall respond to a new bundle of joy coming home, however, they definitely have a MAJOR Influence.
To create a major POSITIVE influence get your existing/older children INVOLVED in the process from pregnancy to birth to care-taking at home.
Let them feel that they too are response able– have the ability to choose how they shall respond to their new sibling with the understanding that their choice shall have a very ‘real affect’ upon their sibling and thus to make that choice one of love- for the care and well being of their sibling.
This can be accomplished through very large and……very small gestures, such as brainstorming new names for the new babe, lending their ideas regarding decorating the new baby room, buying toys, to empowering them with the KNOWledge that they are an ‘important role model’ in their sibling’s life.
The main point IS keep them involved and whilst so DOing maintain a positive attitude regarding – all talk with respect to the new babe coming home should be uplifting to your child, consciously including them in any story being woven. 😀
BlissFull weaving creates masterpieces of divinity manifest physically for all to pay witness, enJOY and BE inspired by.
Blissedly BE,
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 9, 2012 | Enlightenment Guidance
k wanna try something fun and fabyoulously effective….
Where ever you find yourself saying “worry” or any deriative thereof
for example, “I am worried that……” “it worries that….” “i am stressed because….” “i am having anxieties over….”
SWITCH the word “Worry” [or deriative thereof] to “TRUST”.…
For example:
- if you were saying “I am worried about how we are gonna pay the bills”
- you would switch that to “I trust we are gonna pay the bills”
then……
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pay attention to how changing that word makes ya feel……
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and “massage” that feeling.
Repeat EVERY Time you say/think “worry”, at the very least for today anyways…… 😀
For those saying, “well the bills gotta get paid, what difference is some positive thinking gonna do?”
Whatever you choose to focus on if ya got bills that need to be paid, they are there and they need to be paid.
Finding something within the situation that is positive to focus upon such as the FACT that in our world of close to 7 billion, those of us who have bills to pay are the LUCKY ones…….and we are a minority….
assists us in finding the ways required to pay the bills necessary for our privileged minority lifestyle.
This DOes work.
The only way for you to know if that which I say is true, is to try it out for yourself.
**And remember through out the process, stay conscious to your thoughts and more importantly over all feeling…..the point of this fun activity is to align yourself with the feeling of TRUST, Authentically.
So ya gotta LOOK for the positives, look for something concrete that you can ‘sink your positive juices’ into, that you can logically comprehend as in our example above, and flow magnificence into your life as a result. 😀
[an easy thing you can sink your positive juices into is by consciously looking at your past & present for all the positive examples of bliss made manifest in your life……such as, maintaining our example, the fact that you have been paying your bills for x# of years, that you have a place to pay bills for, that you made it possible for you to have a place to pay bills for……..as an example…..]
Here’s to flowing in fabyoulous fun, adventure and positive abundance to all*
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni ~*❤*~
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 8, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
BEing Healthy IS tantamount to ANYthing else in life.
As we all know from times we have been ill, ya don’t get much accomplished, don’t “Live Life” too much when yar feel’n yucky from illness.
BEing Healthy IS a WHOLEistic affair, affecting not only your personal health, longevity, abilities, & quality of life but ALL those whom are withIN your personal circle, affected by YOU in some way, shape or form.
What are YOU DOing to “BE Healthy WHOLEistically”?
WHOLEistic Health means yar taking care of yOUR WHOLE BEing, body, mind and soul…..
Our bodies require healthy energy to sustain…..thus it IS HIGHLY RECOMMENDED when CHOOSing the foods you allow entrance into your body, you choose as whole, raw, and untreated as possible.
Read labels on ALL foods you purchase, the healthier foods have lists/ingrediants that YOU CAN Understand……
Our bodies also require that we USE them both anaerobically and aerobically.
It IS recommended that you pARTipate in:
~aerobic ACTivities 5x/week for at least 20 minutes – 40 minutes. [3x/week should be 30 – 60 minutes].
~anaerobic/strength training/weight lifting ACTivities a minimum of 3x/week – 3 sets comprised of 3 different exercises each btwn 10 – 20 reps/exercise or a total of 9 exercise movements repeated 10x each.
Our minds require ACTivity as well, the more we exercise our minds the ‘longer’ and more sharp shall they be.
pARTicipation in ACtivities that stimulate the brain such as word puzzles, chess, math games, memory games, in-depth conversations/ponderings, learning new information, tasks, etc…. should BE part of our daily routine.
Our souls require our attention as well…..pARTicipating in “spiritual practises” such as yoga, meditation, communing with nature, practising an attitude of gratitude, journaling, sharing in loving exchanges, doing what we can to be conscious, to act in awareness, to transcend the fear consciousness of our ancestors into the love consiousness of our descendents should also BE part of our daily routine.
**Remember yOUR health IS important to not just YOU but ALL those whom love and cherish you.
**Important to note**
As with ALL things in life, we would love to be “purrfect” in our care for SELF and DO ALL we can to maintain a healthy state of homeostasis.
Having said that, for some this IS a far greater challenge/opportunity for growth than others.
For those for whom BEing Healthy IS a great challenge, keep in mind DOing something – ANYthing IS BETTER than DOing nothing at ALL.
Soooo take baby steps….if doing strength training 3x/week for example seems too much, start off with 1x/week. If doing 3 sets feels like too much, start off with 2 or even 1.
Just START.
The more you do the easier it gets and the HEALTHIER you BEcome and everyONE in your life will BE most deeply thankFull to YOU for so DOing.
LOVing SELF IS an WHOLEistic affair which BEnefits ALL of WE.**
LOVE SELF today and BEgin. 😀
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 7, 2012 | Enlightenment Guidance
The only reason it’s good to see where ya wanna make improvements in your life is so that you can look and see where you ALLready have and currently are. 😀
Kk, so lemme explain……
As we all know the saying by now, ‘what ya focus on expands’.….if there are areas in our lives we are wanting to “make better” -for lack of better phrasing in my head currently- hee hee….. then gazing at those things telling yourself they need to get better is telling yourself they are not good right now…….what does that mean?
It means we are focusing on negatives instead of positives which means we are welcoming in more negative experiences instead of the positive ones we are seeking to foster.
Okay so…….
We identify the areas in our life where we would like to develop, grow, ‘better’, heal, so that we CAN so DO by infusing them with LOVE, with Positive thoughts of Bliss.
In other words, we DO a COMPLETE 360 degree shift in our mind set regarding any of these things we have identified as areas needing improvement by seeing where in these very areas we are ALLready DOing grrrrrreat*
THINKING……FEELing…..that’s US CREATING…..
We Are ENERGY.
The Most PowerFull Affect and Effect we can have “out there” in that which “comes to us”, in that which IS Attracted to us IS vis-a-vis our Personal Energy Signature.
Sooooooooooo Ask yourself what Energy Signature YOU are Creating……..if it’s one that is laden in worry, in Fear, then change it……DO ALL YOU can to assist yourself to realign your mind, thoughts and feelings, heart and soul with one another in LOVE towards ALL that IS YOU.
Assistance one can provide self runs the gamet from enlisting in new community/group programs to taking up new hobbies, reading, writing, dancing, to spending more time alone with self or in guided therapeutic/healing sessions.
For those seeking assistance in aligning one’s self in love to promote the most successful foundation possible, I am available for ONE-on-ONE personal journeys – healing sessions – therapy appointments for guidance that is guaranteed to provide enlightening insight into your life and the deicisons you are seeking to make regarding.
Here IS a link to our services page here on our Fulfilled Destiny Blog site.
Please note, Journeys Are available “on-site” either at Sanctuaire Soul’s Sanctuary or in the comfort of your own home for those in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, for an additional fee.
Additionally, for those whom so require, Sliding Scales are in place for all services provided. Just get in touch with me directly to discuss.
“The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.” – Franklin D. Roosevelt
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni ~*❤*~
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