by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 20, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
DO YOU, Can YOU Trust in LOVE?
We’ve heard it time and again…..
If ya wanna manifest your dreams come true ya gotta align your self withIN a vibrational harmony with that which you are desiring……
When we are gifted the experience of our authentic desires [desires of love not fear] we are in a state of bliss, called by some happyness or LOVE.
Sooooooooo if we are wanting to invite in these experiences – if they are not manifest in our lives currently, aligning our selves with LOVE [feelings of blissfulness or happyness] IS the “How” we so DO.
This means we have to TRUST that in so DOing – in putting our faith in LOVE, we are in fact DOing that which IS necessary to welcome in these experiences manifest in our physical experience.
Are YOU, can you, do you Trust in LOVE?
For many of us it is not only counter intuitive [due to millenia of fear based conditioning] but ridiculous to think that if we simply trust that following our bliss, doing that which makes us happy, choosing to think about the potential good versus the potential bad IS ALL that IS required to make it manifest and yet…….it IS.
WE tend to not only put our focus upon the potential negative outcomes but to DO, DO, DO in frantic states, ALL we can to protect us from these perceived potential negative outcomes.
This “be prepared for the worst”, “be realistic” mind set in fact only welcomes in the negative outcomes…..’cuz that’s where we are putting our focus, our energy, and our directed support.
When we ALLOW our selves to focus on the positives, to trust that LOVE will carry us through, [even when facing ‘difficult’ situations] we are supporting that which we authentically require and desire to be made manifest in our lives.
A ‘difficult’ task for many especially when facing ‘difficult’ situations {ie: loss of a job, financial difficulties, health issues, etc….} however…..TRUEly the way we DO invite in that which IS required to assist us with these very situations.
In other words….
If for example you are facing health issues, focusing on the health problems, saying to yourself how sick you are and how difficult a situation you are in, is only going to make it more difficult.
On the other hand if you can focus on the positives…..and there IS ALLways positives – even if really, really itty bitty small ones, assists in the expansion of those positives.
For example, you may be feeling really ill, but……you are here, you are living, breathing, experiencing life…..you woke up today. Not necessarily the, “I’m healthy as a horse feeling” we all prefer to feel, however, when we are experiencing illness, focusing on even these minute/monumental gifts of life assists us in ‘getting back on the horse’ again. ;D
Coming from this vantage point of gratitude for that which IS positive in our lives is HOW we assist our situation to expand there upon and thus increase the physically manifest positive experiences in our lives.
Some may say it requires a “leap of faith” however….we have ALL experienced this FACT in our own lives on many an occasion, as well as witnessing it in other’s lives. (Not to mention paying witness for the last millennia to how it all functions in the ‘reverse’…..manifesting our fears.- How amazing have we shown ourselves to BE at that.*** Manifesting Mavens and Mavericks….just of the ‘wrong’ things…..)
Maintaining our example, we have heard from doctors and scientists alike that the health of an individual has as much to do with their mental state of being as their physical…that in FACT the mental state affects the physical DRASTICALLY.
Soooooooooo let’s give it a try shall we?
Let’s CHOOSE, even through any and all of the potential b.s. that may BE in our lives, to focus on the positives, to TRUST that in ALLOWing SELF to “BE LOVE”, to feel love, and to focus our attentions, thoughts and actions on LOVE, that LOVE Will in fact provide ALL that we authentically [our natural homeostasis state of being is perpetuated by a being in a state of LOVE] require and desire in our lives, and see what happens.
Try it out for a day, an hour, a week, a lifetime and see what happens. 😀
“Nothing has to happen immediately, this minute, or right now.
It’s okay to pause for just a moment. Just take a breath.
Then go quietly inside.
Ask Life Itself to lead you to
your best outcome.
There’s nothing you have to do, really, except
get out of your own way.
… know what I mean?
Love, Your Friend….
Neale Donald Walsch”
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 19, 2012 | Enlightenment Guidance
Life LOVEs BEing a “catch 22”!!!
What keeps us from seeing others as our self and therefore BEing LOVE, is our fear that they will not see us as them, which is a fear we share and thus manifest.
Allow me to explain.
To protect our self from being seen as other than our truth, from being hurt by someone else who is not seeing us [really themselves] as a being of love, who may therefore be ‘mean’, ‘aggressive’, ‘short’, etc…., we hide our love away, we ‘protect our love’.
When we hide (protect) our love away it makes it difficult for others to see our love. Our defensive walls can BE quite sturdy and resilient to even the most authentically loving after soooooo many dedicated years of protection.
If others can’t see our love, they feel the need to protect themselves from the potential ‘hurt’ that may be ‘flung at them’, and thus hide their love.
After a while everyone is protecting themselves and no one is being their truth which is LOVE, and……..on the blissed occasion someone DOes love self openly/publicly, and thus reveals their love to all, no one BElieves it to BE and still, walks cautiously.
When we recognize SELF in Others,
when we recognize that we are ALL ONE,
we recognize the things another may say or do that are of fear, we know when an ACTion IS based upon protecting SELF,
we KNOW exactly what it IS they are DOing and WHY and
we ARE compassionate, we ARE understanding, we identify with them, their pain, their fear, we identify with it, but we do not own it.
We can not of course, walk another’s journey for them.
We CAN however CHOOSE to BE LOVE regardless of the fear based actions of others. We can choose to stay true to our truth. We can choose to BE Authentic in the face of inauthenticity.
We can choose to be our self.
We can choose to be the example for everyone else.
We can BE LOVE.
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni ~*❤ *~
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 14, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
Getting in Shape – which many of us get much more ‘serious’ about as the summer months come upon us – is NOT about self control and self discipline…...what a limiting and negative place to come from, doncha think???
Getting in Shape, BEing Healthy, living a lifestyle that IS nurturing and caring for Self IS about Self Respect and Self LOVE.
When you are respecting and loving self there is no control or discipline required, you are simply DOing that which IS LOVing, caring, and nurturing, otherwise called “good” for YOU….naturally.
It’s a mind set, an attitude, a perspective which we can ALL adopt [as much as we have BEen ingrained otherwise] with practice, patience and perseverance until eventually it IS as natural as when we first arrived upon our Earth School……before the ingraining, socializing, and conditioning that is…….
Try it out and see how it feels………
You can use this or create your own positively affirming statement to assist you in your quest to BE the YOU, you LOVE yourself to BE. 🙂
“BEing Healthy IS Respecting mySELF and LOVing mySELF…..it IS taking care of the only me I have.”
To our naturally occurring health and well being Angels }*{
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 13, 2012 | Enlightenment Guidance
When uncomfortable we wish to feel comfortable and yet continue to focus on the discomfort.
To increase comfort in an uncomfortable situation, seek out whatever comfort, however miniscule it may be, and focus there upon.
Here are a couple of easily relatable examples:
~You are feeling uncomfortable in your body. You are wanting to lose or gain weight, increase or decrease your muscle or fat mass, tone or loosen up, etc…..
Choose to focus not on those aspects of self that are increasing your discomfort, but those that increase it with relation thereto. So you may want to gain weight and increase your muscle mass however, your calves happen to be quite perfect to you right now as they are, in your eyes. Speaking of which, you happen to really love your own eyes.
How ya feel’n now? Now that you are looking at aspects of self that you like rather than dislike?
How much more [or less] likely are you now to take actions that will increase that feeling?
~You are feeling uncomfortable about your finances. You are either wanting more, wanting to handle it better, wanting to feel better about it, etc….
Instead of focusing on what brings discomfort regarding finances, look for examples of your self as it relates to finances that make you feel good about yourself and your relationship to finances. Change your perspective.
For example, you may wish to be spending your money more wisely. Then, ask yourself where you already are spending your money more wisely and give yourself examples of how it is you are wise with finances in general, both with self and others. And finally, recognize that you are. You have not only survived but thrived whilst so doing and are standing here today able to ask your self these questions and therefore take any steps you are so inspired to take to expand upon the fabyoulousness you have already created.
Which foundational energetic launching pad do you prefer to begin from?
It is in choosing to come from a position that is bathed in love, that is seeking out the positive, we diminish our discomfort and increase our comfort.…..and ain’t that the path we’d ALL prefer to BE on? 😀
**Please note, if the “uncomfortable situation” you find yourself within is one that is abusive, one in which harm to self or another is an issue to contend with, then the best way to find comfort in an uncomfortable situation for you is to get out of it.
The discomfort spoken to herein has more to do with one’s mental state in relation to a harmless physically manifest situation.
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni ~*❤*~
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jul 12, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
What we BElieve affects how we Choose to BE……
Our Beliefs affect our thoughts and our feelings about self, life and the relation thereto.
Our thoughts and feelings which are skewed by our personal BEliefs affect our physically manifest Creating BEhaviour, which of course affect all that is, ever was or will be. [So DO the thoughts and feelings we choose to give energy to, they just may not be as visible as quickly in the physically manifest dimension.]
If we BEleive something to BE True – whether it IS or not – our BElief of its truth makes it true for us and thus intrinsically affects our entire life.
As we get to CHOOSE what it IS we BElieve – living in a world of infinite perspectives/interpretations/possibilities then CHOOSing BEliefs that uplift, assist, empower and enLIGHTen us will have an uplifting, assisting, empowering and enLIGHTening affect upon our entire lives.
It’s a Choice.
Happy CHOOSing. 😀
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
p.s. I’d go so far as to say: “Always BElieve that something ONEderFull IS happening NOW.*”~~ Look for it and you are bound to find it. 😉
