by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jan 22, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
Your thoughts…..please and thank YOU. 😀 _()_
How far down the rabbit hole DO ya wanna go?
To release our fears, heal our insecurities, relieve ourselves of our stresses….
how far down the rabbit hole should ONE go?
To release our fears….heal our energy blocks….ALLOW for the Light of LOVE that IS our Unity to flow smoothly, DO YOU BElieve, think, feel, intuit we require facing our fear from:
- more of a detached observation,
- experiencing the breadth of our fear – going right into it, or
- can we simply CHOOSE to BE LOVE??
IS there ONE right answer for everyONE?
There are indeed a plethora of avenues by which we may face our fears, everything from trance dancing to enLIGHTenment Guidance, ;D Meditation, Visualization, Hypnotherapy, EFT, NLP, Art Therapy, Massage, Reiki, and the list it DOes go on and on and on. 😀
I would LOVE to hear from ANY who have any thoughts, insights, words of LOVE’s wisdom, and/or experience regarding facing, releasing and healing from fears.
I have found in my own practise, journeying with Angels [clients] coming to me for enLIGHTenment Guidance [life coaching], for example, that to face the fear IS to – in some way, on some level, experience the fear…….in other words, in order to release a fear of let’s say spiders, ONE must bring to their conscious experience [even in hypnosis], the fear they have of spiders and thus the feeling, experience, even if only internally, thereof.
In other words……there appears to BE no escaping from the actual experience of the fear- on some level…even when CHOOSing to BE LOVE…for in order to make the choice to BE LOVE, ONE needs to experience/feel/see/acKNOWledge the fear first, or there would BE no need to CHOOSE, ‘cuz ya’d just BE, BEing LOVE.…….n’est ce pas.
Thus the question….can we simply CHOOSE to BE LOVE, without facing our fears, and have them released as a result? Can we heal from our fears, release any energy blocks that occurred by simply choosing to be love all the time, or DOes the process of healing require facing our fears?
And….if we must face our fears…..to what extent???
IS it enough to have an ‘academic’ understanding of them or DO we need to actually feel/experience the fear, which IS in truth nothing more than a thought that causes aversive emotional reactions. In other words, IS it enough to think about our fears from an analytical, detached perspective, or DO we need to go to the extent of feeling it too?
How far down the rabbit hole DO we need to go???
It IS a question I am asking having spent most of the summer going through some of my own “inbred” childhood fears that were definitely nurtured through out much of my young adult life.
Assisting others IS ONE thing, going through ONE’s own fears academically, another thing, facing yOUR fears sporadically or more on a piece meal basis, part by part IS definitely NOT the same as diving right in and really having a look around…and yet still, in ALL cases YOU are having to go through yOUR fears…..having to experience the feeling of the fear as opposed to merely releasing it. It seems that to HEAL there IS no way of getting around the experience of the fear from which YOU are seeking to heal…….however gentle, minuscule, or detached it may BE….it still IS. In other words, if you have a fear, to release it, you must know what it is you are releasing, you must face it, if it is there. The only way to not have to face a fear in order to release it, is to not have the fear in the first place.
Well, I gotta say, it makes purrrrrrfect sense to me NOW why my natural inclination [my Personal Legend/profession/raison d’etre] was towards TALK based healing……amongst the MOST gentle means of facing ONE’s fears and thus HEALing the energy blocks that keep us from leading the fulfilled lives we ALL deserve to live.
If YOU are seeking to heal, and would like some gentle guidance to assist you in your journey, get in touch with me directly by clicking the link below in the “Author Bio” section. 😀
Bliss*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jan 20, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
Okay, so what’s the big deal about facing our fears anyways???
It’s mostly a mental thang anyways….spending countless hours worrying about what May be, conjuring horrible stories of what Might happen, as opposed to actually physically enACTing or experiencing our fear. Especially in those situations where we are purposeFully CHOOSing to heal.
And yet, even when intentionally seeking to heal, to face our fears, do we can make facing these mental thoughts, amongst the most difficult of things we do.
Well, that’s becasue facing our fears brings forth TRUTHs we may NOT have otherwise BEen wanting to face.
New information [or information we have ALLways had but NOT wanted to look at] inspires NEW CHOICEs which in turn materialize new ACTions that DO cause physically manifest change in our lives.
Change we may have feared prior to facing our fears, ;D which once we DO, are no longer sooooo scary anymore…….however life altering ACTing upon them may BE.
**Which just goes to show ya……..how infinitely powerFull we are as the co-CREATORs of our lives.
It is that we need to start to TRUST in that which IS, to be open to see that if there is something in our lives that is not bringing us happyness, we have choices available, choices that we can make to change our experience.
CHOICE……it can BE 1 small choice……to DO 1 small thing differently than BEfore and yet…..our entire lives are transformed as a result.
It may seem scary to take that step, to make a change, so start off slowly, with just one baby step and see how that feels and where it takes you, what new information and thus choices become available as a result.
In every NOW….every moment, we have the CHOICE...the choice to BE however we CHOOSE to BE…..in every moment……indeed……not only in facing our fears have we the potential to make life altering decisions in simply BEing. In every moment have we this life altering, affecting ability. Indeed…..DO we make this life altering/affecting decision in every NOW of our experience of BEing….even when that decision IS to NOT make change.
a-ha………..
May we ALL make the decision to LOVE SELF and DO what IS necessary to bring forth into our experience of BEingnss that which IS of our HIGHest HAPPYness.
BLISS!
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jan 18, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
‘Funny’ thing I noticed…..pARTicipating in a most ONEderFull, infinitely giving, providing and receiving healing circle here in the embrace of Sanctuaire Soul’s Sanctuary, sharing in the focused intent of each individual for their own personal healing journey……The very things we are wanting to BE in our lives the most, are the very things that are MOST in our lives. 😀
It IS our DOUBT thereof that causes the lack of awareness – that leaves us with out the ability to realize…..see through our “real eyes” [eyes of LOVE and Gratitude] the TRUTH of our BEingness.
We are sooooo silly!!!
?……….soooooooo hard on our SELVes are we.
‘Tis ‘time’ to BE LOVing to SELF, to BEgin to put our focus on the things about self that we love as opposed to those things we think are not ‘good enough’.
Amazingly when we DO…the things we love flourish – like a well tended garden, and the ones we don’t Naturally dissipate……like weeds [fears] in our gardens BEing taken care of by the overflowing growth of other healthy natural flora [love], leaving no room for any weeds [fear] as they spread their roots [love] withIN the lush, BEaYOUtyFull gardens of LOVE [that is we, BEings of LOVE’s Light]. 😀
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jan 16, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
Free Will means we’ve got it ALL babay……every aspect of BEing human, each of we, withIN us the ability to so choose how, who, what to BE.
In other words, withIN every ONE of us IS the capacity to BE a Mother Theresa as much as there IS a murderer.?? The question IS which of the many aspects that make us, who we are, that make YOU, YOU, DO YOU CHOOSE to give Voice to??? The wolf or the kitten, which DO YOU CHOOSE to feed?
A good question to ponder IS, “Are YOU Consciously Choosing?”.
Turns out more often than not, when we Consciously Choose, it IS LOVingly……how about that.
?****Special NOTE***
We ALL have and may again CHOOSE to “feed the wolf”. Instead of getting upset with Self for so DOing…recognize the opportunity for growth presented.
Like any “lesson learned”, it may take a few times hearing it, learning it, repeating it BEfore we really get it down……and once we DO……c’est automatic! Just like driving a bicycle or tying our laces or learning to use “the potty”.
If we wanna learn the lesson of LOVE.….heal those ‘wolf’ aspects of SELF that have BEen ‘released’, generally speaking through some negatively interpreted past experience we MUST BE Patient with ourself. When we have an experience we interpret negatively [and yes, sometimes an experience can just be seen as negative by everyone, like child abuse for example…no ‘interpretation’ necessary.] we have feelings, thoughts and at times physically manifest ACTions associated there with [inspired into BEingness from that experience] we may not be too pleased with Self about. These experiences may have ‘released’ angers [in thought, emotion or physically expressed] for example we never felt, thought or acted upon before.
BE patient with your self and the lessons being learnt and taught to self. [or more apropo, the process of releasing the “wrong lesson” to ALLOW for our inherent state of homeostasis- BEing LOVE- to BE once again.]
Keeping with our example, the anger may have come as a result of feeling unworthy, subhuman, disrespected, etc… when subject to child abuse. Reconciling these erroneous thoughts may require processing through the experience in order to heal from them. Keep in mind, even though these thoughts and feelings and potentially resulting action may have been isnpired by the actions of another, if you are the one feeling the anger you are the one most affected by it, not the one who inspired it. Futher more ACTing from a place of anger only brings more negativity into our lives.
In allowing our self to be open to listen to our anger, [in this specific example, it can BE ANY negatively charged thought or feeling] to journey the adventure from which the anger was derived, are we able to understand, let go and thus release the anger, making way for the light of LOVE to enter and thus for us to so embody.
Getting upset with your self for feeling the anger or any ‘negatively affecting emotion or thought’ does NOT leave room for growth: understanding, letting go, allowing, releasing, healing and CHOOSing Consciously NEW [inherent/innate actually] ways of responding. 😀
So, acKNOWledge the feelings and thoughts that are bringing you down, that are heavy to your BEing, that inspire ACTions you would rather NOT participate within, without judgement thereto. Look at them, talk with them, USE them to HEAL self in patience, understanding and LOVE. The more we so DO the greater our opportunity to usher in the kitten in all areas of our experience of BEingness.
BLISSedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jan 14, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
In our fervent quest to ask and know “Why?” what the meaning of life IS, I humbly suggest we choose to Not ask and simply make a choice and allow our self to relish there withIN.
The truth is…..we know not the truth. 😀
We KNOW NOT where we come from or for that matter to where we go once we transcend our physical life.
We KNOW NOT the “TRUE Meaning of Life”….outside of the ONE we CHOOSE to make of it.
If in fact the meaning of life is what it is to each of we individually based upon our CHOICE in what definition to adhere thereto, it only makes sense to choose a meaning that is upilfting, enhancing, blossoming, empowering, enLIGHTening to YOU, n’est ce pas???
I have mySELF dedicated the greater breadth of my life’s existence in humbled devotion to asking why? what? where? when? who? how? in service to and for the BEnefit of ALL of We.
And…..after 2 decades of said dedicated devotion have I discovered that we really don’t have the answers we ALL seek.….at least NOT in any physically manifest manner that we can state in 100% conclusive satisfaction.
Sooo where DOes that leave us in this NOW of our existence??
Do we hang it all up, give it all in, or….do we take heed to the facts that we DO KNOW conclusively.…which IS…..though we may not the grander picture have the answers for, [ ie: “what IS it ALL for?”], we DO KNOW, each of we, what brings us our HAPPYness, what makes us comfortable in life, what values, BEliefs, ideas, points of view, people, places and things bring us peace, BLISS and serenity. 😀
Sooooooooo let us then make the decision to make the choices in our lives that are of our HIGHest HAPPYness……soooo simple, soooo easy……NOW….let’s DO, DO, DO it!
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE.
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Jan 14, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
There IS much fear inducing talk regarding the ascension of our lives as they relate to this year, 2012, the cosmic alignments occurring, and “The End of the Mayan Calendar”. Thing is, that which IS ending IS our very relationship with none other than fear.
If as it so happens, a relationship, lifestyle choice, or career change occurs, it IS BEcause this relationship, lifestyle choice or career was NOT serving yOUR HIGHest HAPPYness.
If our world as we know it changes, which for the majority of we, ever growing by the minute, is a huge desire, these changes occurring shall be changes to a system that has been to our detriment and not our benefit.
There is NOTHING to fear about things ending…..if they are ending it IS BEcause they are NOT serving YOU.
There is nothing to fear about the changes happening in general whether they be with respect to our global system or within our own individual lives. If something IS changing it IS changing for the BETTER.
Let us focus upon the fabYOUlousness and positive abundance that are beckoning to us, awaiting us to ‘make room’ for and embrace their LOVEliness into our lives, instead of putting fear into a situation that IS DOing the very opposite thereto…that IS HEALing us of our fears, remembering how we CHOOSE to perceive, receive and respond to any situation has as much to DO with the outcome fo that situation as the instigating events of the situation itself. 😀
I will leave you with a perfect example, I send forth blissings communicates this truth.
I had been working as the acting Vice President of Communications for a company for over a year whilst the actual VP of nearly a decade was away on leave. Within weeks of her return, I was fired, which at the time they called “let go” for political reasons. I was “let go” because I had done such an awesome job, showing that if the VP actually did her job appropriately there was no need for the 2 positions we upheld. It was me or her, and obviously we know how that turned out.
On my drive home from the very abrupt dismissal, I remember stopping at a red light and looking up into the infinite sky and saying, “okay, what have ya got in store for me now?”. True, whilst in the walls of the company I was in a state of shock, and whilst emptying my desk and office space, I do admit to tears escaping my eyes, however, the overall response was one of gratitude for what was and an innate knowing that something better was awaiting my embrace, and it was……..Sanctuaire Soul’s Sanctuary.
Had I chosen to fall victim to fear, had I chosen to freak out that I was a single mother reliant upon myself with another human being reliant upon me for their sustenance and well being, I may never have heard the call to open Sanctuaire Soul’s Sanctuary, and we may never have been here today, sharing in this very experience of BEingness together.
Blissings unto ONE and ALL, a life of HAPPYness experienced in conscious awareness where fear has no breath and love infinitely abounds.
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
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