by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Feb 16, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
Who we are – regardless of our situation in life, IS WHO we CHOOSE to BE and HOW we CHOOSE to BE. We can ALL, ALLways CHOOSE to BE however we want to BE….this IS our Gift of Infinite Possibilities.
If ONE IS wanting to Change HOW they are BEing………??LANGUAGE IS an excellent place to BEgin.
What IS the language of yOUR life?
What are the “regular go to words” in yOUR Mind’s library?
Which words DO YOU CHOOSE to use when thinking, feeling about YOU?
Small little changes can make HUGE BIG Differences.
For example: When I was in my early thirties I accepted that my understanding/vision/inherent KNOWing regarding “god” was NOT that of the standard definition thereof and thus CHOSE to NOT use that word when describing that which IS my own personal view….which IS LOVE.**
Makes a HUGE difference this ONE little word change, n’est ce pas??
Try it out….using “LOVE” instead of “God” and see for yOUR SELF…or if more comfortable try another simple word change like for example….
Instead of using the word “Friends” for those who have BLISSed yOUR life with their Gift, use the word “Angels”.
Instead of using words like “Fat, Wierd, Lazy, Failure, Struggle…” try using words that are more uplifting, assisting & empowering like “Vivaciously Voluptuous, Eccentric, Contemplative, Knowledge, Opportunity…” just a few examples where simple changes in our language can make a world of difference in our manifest lives.
The words we CHOOSE to use out of the infinite combinations there are, affect how we think and feel about life, self, and everything, which of course affects our ACTions there after, which affects that which IS actualized in physical manifestation.
In addition to the words we choose is the manner by which we choose to use them. What is the tone of your voice when speaking? What are the inflections in your speech, pitch and overall body language when expressing your self?
There are MANY, MANY, MANY tools, tips and tricks available to us to assist us in transcending out of the muck and mire of our fear conditioned minds and into the light, airy breeze of bliss that IS our heart based minds……..Language IS a KEY in ALL.***
Gett’n ‘back to basics’ as it were……paying attention to the tools we DO use and making them ‘work for us’ instead of against us.
What are some examples YOU can share with ALL of WE to assist each of us in CHOOSing new, uplifting, empowering, and enhancing ways of BEing LOVE?
Please DO share BElow in the comments section.
**obviously 1 of the ways that I play with language IS with the words themselves…..with my capitals and spelling changes which I DO to bring focused attention that I may inspire an aware state of BEing……for really ALL that transcendence/enlightenment/ascension is about IS “BEing Aware”…….just ‘waking up to TRUTH’, to what ‘IS’ in~of~for~through LOVE. 😀
Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Feb 12, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
Communication IS key.
We are a “social species” in fact, ALL that IS, IS interACTive and interdependent upon each other from the minerals deep in our Earth School’s core to the shimmering stars in our cosmos.
InterACTion IS Communication.
CHOOSing to so DO through LOVE and patience, in calm, relaxed states of BEing ALLOWs for Smooth Sailing: clear skies, clear minds, and open hearts.
And……when we don’t for shall there BE times that we won’t respond through love and patience until we have fully adopted a new habitualized fashion of BEing, LEARN from the experience. Instead of ignoring, repressing or attempting to sweep under the carpet our disagreements, conflicts, arguements, and ACTions that are NOT based in LOVE and patience, understanding and compassion, USE them to assist in diminishing such experiences in the future.
There is no point living in denial. We are living in a world that currently thrives on conflict. The biggest industries the globe over are dedicated to such. In that WE ARE Interconnected, none go unaffected by the current state of affairs. Really, there’s no escaping it. We DO however have a CHOICE as to how we want to and how we shall conduct ourselves in our personal lives. Though we have been subject to thousands upon thousands of years of fear based conditioning, training us to constantly be in a state of fight or flight we CAN and we DO have the ability to alter this conditioning. Just like breaking any bad habit, it takes dedication and commitment and the persevering decision to stick with it and just like with any new habit we are fostering, when we so DO, it becomes easier and easier until finally it is second nature, as natural as was the bad habit we have let go and replaced.
Blissings unto ALL of we for minds full of LOVE, engaging in open communication with our hearts and manifesting in actualized physicality our highest happyness ALLways. _(l)_
Namaste
In Lak’ech Ala K’in
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Feb 10, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
By sheer fact that we are, are we radiating Light through density, and thus elevating density into Light.
The question IS…..how much light are YOU streaming??
Yesterday on my way out to take our dog Shaman for a walk, wearing my ankle weights, ‘cuz I LOVE to multi-task where possible, I performed a little ‘rebirthing, regenerating, rejuventaing, healing ceremony’ at the start of our promenade.
After the ceremony I was feeling LIGHTened, and walking as such. I realized after looking down to kick the ball to Shaman that I had forgotten I was wearing my ankle weights.
At that moment I realized that my ‘LIGHTened Mind set’ overrode the weight around my ankles, [10 pounds each ankle] I did NOT feel ‘weighed down’ by them.
It then dawned on me…..the heaviness of the weights, the LIGHTness of my state of BEing….WE are Light BEings in seemingly dense bodies and as a result thereof, are we in a unique position of transfusing these seemingly dense manifestations of our BEingness with as much or as little Light as we so CHOOSE. We are the conduits of Light, the transformers of Density, the Alchemists of dimensions, forms, and physicality.
The heaviness of my weights can BE attributed to the heaviness of the physical body and transcending that heaviness with my mind’s state of BEingness the CHOICE that we have to enLIVEn our lives with the LOVE’s Light of our quintessence…..ascended mastery*
BLISSedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Feb 8, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
Posted originally in Skills for Awakening
It doesn’t take any effort to fall in love. Suddenly the walls you’ve built around your heart crumble and you experience what you are at your core: alive with the bliss of the heart. Suddenly your ego has evaporated and all you can think of is how to make your beloved happy.
Imagine a world where our first order of business is to make each other happy! No really—take a moment and picture that. It sounds completely utopian—impossible really—and I am here to say that we are exactly headed for that. And the best place to learn it is in our relationships.
Just one ‘little’ problem: what we expect in relationships makes true happiness impossible. “Some day you will find that special one who will make you happy.” You know, the prince charming fiction. He will come and swipe you off your feet and you will be one. The whole world tells us some version of this. We are raised to believe it, it comes at us from all sides every day, and we love to believe it. It’s deep in our unconscious and it’s completely and utterly impossible.
It’s impossible because if you want to be happy for more than a short honeymoon, then this love has to come from inside you. It has to be the way you are: this openness of heart, this self-love, this inner glow of your own fulfillment. Solid, unshakable, a breath of eternity. You deserve no less.
Another person cannot give that to you. It’s an inside job and the whole world will help you to find this love, your true Self, once you understand how it ticks. But first you’re stuck in this Neanderthal paradigm of relationships. Let’s get you out of there!
1. You will get two things from your lover and from everyone else close to you: The first thing is love and support. Yes we all go for that. And what is the second thing? We don’t want to look at it. We want to deny it. And yet we know it. It’s challenge.
Don’t you know that there isn’t one relationship in the world that isn’t challenging? As a matter of fact, in the long run, challenge is what you can count on. Love and support are optional. We have to work to keep things positive.
2. This romantic hallucination of meeting the one who will make you happy infuses you with another illusion. It’s the unconscious expectation that it’s his or her job to make you happy. Well, of course, you’ve been raised to believe that. That’s what a partner is for!
So now what do you do when the inevitable happens and you’re not happy with the relationship? Where does that take you? It cannot take you anywhere but into blame, frustration and war. After all s/he is breaking the unspoken contract. Your partner is not living up to the illusion of what you have been taught to expect.
Now you’re really in a trap. Innocently you believe the romantic nightmare. You don’t realize that no one outside you can fulfill you—simply because they’re not inside you. You are. Your heart is your business. And you’re closing it down because s/he doesn’t do what they cannot do: fulfill you.
3. And there is more. If you depend on someone else to make you happy, then there is fear. They might leave you. And then where would you be with your source of happiness gone and your life all in shambles? So you do small or large things that don’t feel right to you, just to keep him/her, just to keep the peace. You prostitute yourself, and that feels terrible, but you see no other way.
These 3 problems are universal. They are present in almost all marriages or intimate partnerships and they serve no one. Here are 3 solutions for you:
1. The Source of all true happiness is in you. It is your already existing wholeness, the fullness in the core of your heart. You have tasted it in moments before, but most of the time it is obstructed by fear, anger, stress, distractions, sadness, running after meaningless pleasures, and so on. Now you can take the steps to find true and lasting happiness by:
A. Moving your expectation for happiness from the “perfect” partner to this inner Source.
B. Freeing yourself from the inner obstructions by practicing high-level skills with the help and support of a spiritual guide and community.
C. Healing your life and nurturing yourself deeply from the inner Source of all love, until you are clear and unshakable in your own happiness.
2. Once you know that you are responsible for, and capable of, your own happiness, you can react constructively to the inevitable challenges of the relationship. You can realize that your suffering is not created by your partner. Instead it comes from your reactions to his or her behavior. You are never a victim of anything other than your own reactiveness, your own confusion, and your own blindness. To change this, to become free of the obstacles to your happiness, you need to have someone to bring your reactiveness, your hot buttons to your attention. And there is no one better on earth than your partner to show them to you!
3. Having replaced impossible expectations with awareness and gratitude you now find yourself in a relationship with the perfect mate. Your lover is the one who supports you with his love (at times) AND by showing you where you are not yet enlightened. Whenever you react, now you can do something constructive with that: you free yourself of your way of reacting.
In this process you will experience incredible intimacy. Your love will blossom as it is freed from expectation and your relationship will become a sacred dance. To any conflict there is only one possible outcome: that it will bring your closer to your Self. Being closer to your Self, being more whole, you have more love in you and therefore more love to give, freely, without expectation. And who better to share it with than your lover?
You have now moved from being stuck in the ego of suffering (“S/he will make me happy”) to the ego of aspiration. In your aspiration for freedom you will come to know the infinite Source of love in your heart step by step. It will heal all your old pain and dissolve the cycles of suffering and your ways of self-sabotage. It will set you free.
And, when the time comes, it will reveal to you the state of liberation, the ego of the sage, the one who lives in oneness with everything. In oneness with yourself, with the sky and the earth and all living things. And of course with your partner. That is true happiness, unshakable, solid and eternal.
That is the oneness and the happiness they told you to expect. They just weren’t clear about how to get there.
CLARIFICATION
My dear,
I am not a donkey
looking for a mate.
I am the soul with that great hunger
to know itself in the brilliant light
hidden inside you.
In truth
I am not even a man.
But as long as it appears so to us,
it’s a handy trick
to catch the dark thoughts
and to throw light into the room. It’s
a tool for exposure and freedom
and a stage for practicing love.
I belong to no one,
not even myself.
My hearts’ allegiances run very deep.
My business is to burn us both
in that great fire that has consumed me
ever since the gurus’ supreme love
first inspired my heart.
We are so much more than we know.
I am that great fire
that burns each star
as an offering only to you –
only to you, who fashioned
the stars out of darkness
and wove your body
of light and of earth
so admiration and awe
could have a place in this world.
~ ©Ram Giri Braun
by Rhonda Sheryl Lipstein | Feb 6, 2012 | Namaste Love Whispers
Whaddya wanna BE…..Gentle
Howddya wanna BE….Gentle
Whoddya wanna BE Gentle to….everyONE [starting with SELF***]
Whyddya wanna BE Gentle….to ALLOW for the space to CHOOSE LOVE.
Hello Angels, blissings this find YOU LOVing Life today. 😀
***We are ALL response able [responsible] to CHOOSE LOVE as the pathway by which we live our lives, and so BEing IS greatly enhanced when we CHOOSE to walk the path of Gentillity.
_(l)_ Namaste my sweet soul’s family, hugs of LOVE and Gratitude. _(l)_
