Self Loathing

Self Loathing

We tend to get caught up in fighting with our self, in self loathing for not being good enough, doing enough, making mistakes, taking a wrong turn, etc….etc….etc….however…..we never know WHY we mayBE SHOULD have taken that wrong turn, made that “mistake” – what “divine intervention” may BE playing a role in ensuring that which “should BE” manifest actualized IS.

Purrrhaps in making that mistake, or taking that wrong turn, you avoided uncertain death, catastrophe, or perhaps in so DOing you assisted another in avoiding the same, another you may never have known and may never know, but the mere fact that you took that wrong turn and were not where you had intended to be just shifted another’s entire life.

The point IS, we do NOT see the rippling affects of our BEingness.…we do NOT know and sooooooooo it IS BEST for our psyche, our emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual well BEing to not hold on to negative feelings associated with that which we perceive to be ‘mistakes’, to let go that we may carry on in light and love……for in truth the BEST we can DO for anyONE starting with self of course, ;D IS to BE LOVE.

In Lak’ech Ala K’in
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*

 

Life IS a Mystery

?”It’s god’s will”….”it’s for our highest happyness”…..”the universe support us and loves us”…..

Why do we say these things?
Why do we believe in these things?

BEcause Life IS a MYSTERY.

Sure it’s easy enough to connect the dots in retrospect….”because I did this, it led to this and if I was not here and didn’t speak to that person then this would never have come to pass”……?? But when we are in it, living it, how do we know that we should be at place x, speak to person b, take phone call z? How do we know that making choice “a” will bring about “efg”?

We don’t. At least not the majority of we, in our current perceptual state of reality.

Life is a mystery and somehow because we did do “x, y, and/or z”, it did lead to “a, b and/or c” which we are so very greatful for, which altered the course of our lives in ways we could never have imagined.? And when we are not greatful, we are not understanding yet the “why”, we aren’t seeing the big picture, how our “a,b,c” provided for person “y’s” “d, e, f” or provided for us the experience of “l, m, n”……then again, do we ever really- see the exponential affects of our BEingness upon the ALL that IS, ever was or will BE?

And so we say, “It’s god’s will”….”it’s for our highest happyness”…..”the universe supports us and loves us”…..because to think anything other would have each of us with our heads buried so far down in the sand there would be no “a, b, c, x, y, z” or anything else for that matter.

And at the end of the day if believing that we do live in a world that is supporting and loving us gets us through the day, gives us the impetus to carry on, it can’t be a very bad thing…….especially when taking into account the alternative…..n’est ce pas. 😀

***It’s important to note that those times we are the most upset with “what IS” in our lives, when we are resisting what IS, not accepting our current situation it IS often times because we think we know how, what, and why things should be a certain way and they are not…….

…..holding on to what we think we know, when we are but 1 molecule in a sea of billions is a little presumptious……n’est ce pas?

Accepting what IS whether it makes sense to you or not gives you the ability and impetus to “take care of business”….to deal with the situation in whatever way you best possibly can, as opposed to the stagnating alternative of spinning aimlessly in a vortex of negativity.

Blissedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*

Get out of your head and into your heart.

Get out of your head and into your heart.

“Get out of your head and into your heart.”,

what exactly DOes that mean?

Am I not in my head, heart and for that matter every part of my physical body?

When I think, feel, or act, DOes my brain not emit neuroelectrical impulses whilst simultaneously, my heart arterial pulsations which each radiate through out the whole that is me?

We are a WHOLE functioning BEing.

External situations stimulate internal responses including thoughts and feelings we give our attentions to. [and as it were, vica verca – our thoughts and feelings give rise to external situations. :D]

The thoughts and feelings stimulated by external situations then stimulate associative neuropathways that have been established from past experiences.

These stimulated neuropathways fire associative electrical impulses within our brains, as well as our hearts which radiate down our spine through out the whole of our being, with specific associated ACTion directions for our bodies, including our brains [thoughts and feelings] contained within these electrical impulses.

It has BEen found that withIN the heart are “brain cells”, in other words, in our heart you will find that which has been determined to be our “thinking”/commanding head quarters, otherwise called “neurons”.

Who IS to say that “negative” fear based thoughts originate in the brain and “positive” love based thoughts in the heart?
If I am thinking negatively or positively IS not ALL of me affected equally?
DOes my chest/heart not feel constricted when in a state of panic or fear….when thinking such stimulating fearfull thoughts?
DOes my heart not feel open, light and airy when consumed with thoughts of bliss?
Which IS thinking what?

If I am running am I standing still?

What DOes it mean to “get out of your head and into your heart” then?
Metaphors, analogies, but TRUEly what DOes it mean?

Can YOU get out of yOUR fingers or yOUR toes? Stop the electrical impulses whether from yOUR heart or your head from pulsating to any one specific region of the body?

Why have we NOT to our feet relegated our central focus, as – ask any reflexologist and they shall tell you ALL parts of our physical BEings have withIN our feet their nerve endings….evidently a very special relegated position indeed.

Metaphors and Analogies, we find ourselves often times getting lost therein and forget to which they are TRUEly describing/meaning.

“Get out of your head and into your heart”……

……We have given the head the brunt of responibility for our fear and our heart our love and yet when feeling/thinking either fear or love, we are never thinking/feeling both- [we are only thinking one thought at a time]…….and furthermore all that is who we are is affected by whatever it is we are choosing to give our attention to in any given moment…..from our head to our heart to every single one of the 100 trillion cells in our entire being.

This metaphor in TRUTH is simply our way of saying “let go of your fearFull thoughts and allow loving, positive thoughts to be your focus.

Let’s not get so lost in the metaphors and simply get down to the basics.

Fear based thoughts, anxieties, stress, worry, negative skewed thinking negatively affect our entire BEing….period.

This IS scientifically proven, as much as IS positive based thinking positively affecting our overall homeostasis state of BEing.

So at the end of the day the very simple message IS:

DO whatever YOU can to assist yOUR SELF to BE HAPPY, to focus on the positives in life, to CHOOSE the perspective that brings YOU the greatest joy, the impetus to DO things that bring YOU even more joy, as opposed to those that inspire self degradation.

That’s it, that’s all.

There are ALLways an INFINITE number of ways of looking at any situation and in each infinitisimal moment the choice of which of the infinite perspectives we shall choose to focus our attentions upon.

This choice then affects the physically manifest actions we take in our experience of BEingness which of course creates a domino affect……..ultimately creating what is that which we call, ‘our life’.

C’est tout.

BLISSedly BE
Radiating LOVE,
Roni*

How important are BEliefs?

An exercise/ACTivity on the importance of our *CHOSEn* BEliefs:??*with the understanding that a lot/most of our beliefs are not really “chosen” but conditioned/socialized ‘into our brains, our perceptions’ as an integral aspect to our lessons in understanding life as provided by those in our life~~our life teachers.

*Think about your life right now.

Consider the perceptions you have.

Consider the principles upon which those perceptions are founded.

What is it that you believe about life that has assisted you in making the choices that you have about your life right down to your every day ACTivities.

Consider this example:
A person’s choice of what to cook for dinner is based upon what food they have available which is based upon their food purchasing choices which is based upon which foods they believe to be “good” for them.

In thinking about which foods are good for them, the question at this point is to ask, “where did they learn what is considered to be “good” food?” and if ya wanna take it further – which when looking at our own lives IS ALLways HIGHLY RECOMMENDED, the next question is “do they [i] agree [upon conscious reflection] with these precepts of that which goes into the definition of what is considered to be “good food”?

In other words, are the foods they consider “Good” foods, foods THEY actually consider good? Have they put any thought into this decision or merely regurgitated someone else’s meaning of that which is “good food” such as their parents, teachers, friends, culture, etc…?

Okay so having the example we do, moving on…..

Thinking about our life, and all we do regarding that which we BElieve……

What would happen if all of a sudden YOU DID start to question yOUR BEliefs..…….even the really, really “Big ONEs” like what you BElieve the “purpose to life” is really all about for example.

How would the realization that all of your beliefs CAN BE brought into question affect your over all life?

Would YOU still BE DOing the things YOU are DOing if yOUR BEliefs changed?

Keeping in ‘mind’, a BElief IS “nothing more” than a thought……and yet this all pervading thought has a very real causal effect upon the life we experience as that which we call “our reality”.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
Indeed, things that make ya go hmmmmmmmmmmmm

**Key Question to ask yOUR SELF if TRUEly wishing to BE an Authentically Conscious BEing**

Who taught the person who taught you what you believe and then who taught them, back to the source and then…..

IS that source based upon indisputable fact or opinion?

IS there anything that can BE called indisputable fact at all?

Do I [you] resonate with these beliefs, ideals, insights, with the knowledge and wisdom of your life experiences?

Am I [you] basing that which I [you] believe in, upon self discovered, researched, experienced facts and truths withIN my own life, or are they based upon that which I [you] have been taught by another and integrated into my self definition without any consideration into their inherent harmony with my [your] own ideals, truths, experiences, wisdom, etc…?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
yes, yes, yes, the things that DO make ya go hmmmmmmmm

In so pondering, reflecting here upon are we providing for SELF vast amounts of opportunity for growth, healing, and thus transcended ascension into our Authenticity.

Blissings unto each of we upon our pathways of ascended growth into the homo luminous being of our inherent divine nature.

Radiating LOVE,
Roni*

Where, How, When, Why did we learn fear?

Ya KNOW how when someONE scares us we can get really angry……like when someONE is disoriented and walks out into the middle of the street, and we are fearFull for their safety…..and instead of lovingly guiding them back to the sidewalk we yell at them to get their hiney outta the road??? Or how about when we like someONE and instead of cozying up to them or letting them know of our positive attraction, we shy away, sometimes even avoiding them outright??? Or when we are feeling less than about self and instead of sharing these feelings with our significant partners in life we lash out at them in anger?

Ever ONEder where we learned to respond from fear instead of LOVE?

Things that make ya go hmmmmmmmmmmmm

Perhaps, just perhaps, things that make ya ponder there upon to find new ways to inspire responses based withIN LOVE from withIN Self that we may BE the example to ALL others learning how to BE Human. 😀
How BLISSFully deLIGHTFull it shall BE when ALL of WE are coming from our inherently Divine Light of LOVE, n’est ce pas. 😀 😀 😀

Radiating LOVE,
Roni*

Why are you?

Why are you?

SUPPOSING we had any CHOICE in coming here – to our Earth School, embodying these physical masterpieces we call the human body, and living this life we are living……
WHY do you think/suppose YOU CHOSE to come here?
What do you think/suppose are your reasons for choosing to come to experience this experience we call life?
What are the things you think/suppose you came here to experience, share, pARTicipate within and why?

Why IS it so important to ask these questions and give self the opportunity, patience, energy to TRUEly answer them in conscious awareness:

1. Where attention goes, energy flows……
thinking about the things we like about our life experience draws them closer to us

2. Thinking about things we like, makes us feel good…..
even if ya don’t have the things or aren’t doing the things you would surmise are your reasons for coming here, thinking about these things, using our IMAGINATION to think about things that make us happy, MAKES US HAPPY……

3. Thinking Happy thoughts, which makes us feel good provides the inspiration, stimulation and motivation to DO things in our NOW that also make us feel good that are motivated, inspired and stimulated by HAPPYness.

4. On a scientific, deductive reasoning, logical note….
if we BElieve [and with all we know about energy – the laws of life itself] that we are co-creative collaborators in our present life, that we have some input into that which we experience, that our choices in life make a difference to the life we have, one can only conclude therefore that we must have had some choice BEfore this life…….

In other words, either we are co-creators, or……..we are not.

Who’s ready to take back their co-creating powerFull abilities and live the life we intended to BE?

Radiating LOVE,
Roni*